Many parents are concerned about children’s anger and they come to find help and support.

The first and the most important thing is to look for an answer in:

1. the family system

2. in the child’s environment

3. his/ her daily life / routine

It might be related to:

1. family dis-functionalities

2. his/ her unmet basic needs

3. insecure attachment

4. problems related to the integration of his/ her life experience.

The child with unconscious bad behaviour may try to:

- draw parents attention ("Hello parents, pay attention to me, I am alive, I am here, I need your help and support!!!");

- protest against the conditions of existence, where any of his/ her desires and interests are oppressed ("OK, so you're not listening to me – this is what you are going to have!!!");

- struggle copying with conflicts within the family, which he/ she can’t understand and these conflicts make him/her feel stuck ("I do not understand what is happening, help me !!!")

Angry behaviour always has a reason. To find this reason is our job!

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